The Subject

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We need to make DEATH the subject of our conversations - something that we deliberately avoid doing!



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Haris Gulzar said…
You're right. Death is probably the only thing thats confirmed, but we hardly talk about it...
11:13 PM
M. Umer Toor said…
I too was thinking the same thing when i passed a group of young boys outside the home where someone had just died. Even on funerals people discuss things like cars, food, etc, etc...

Allah hamari islah farmaye.
7:27 AM
Uni said…
Very true. But you know what... people simply get impatient and say "Yeh kia fuzul bataain karnay beth gayeen" :S:S

I so wish for good nisbat.

JazakAllah for the reminder.
1:24 AM
Samah said…
You're so right NA.
People gape at me if or when I talk about death because they think I'm too young to do so. We only think about death when we are old and there's no escaping death.
2:33 AM
Anonymous said…
Reminds me of sooo many things at once... that I dont know where to start...
10:44 AM
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